Wednesday, January 7, 2015

Are states obesity rates fueled by local selection?

01/07/2014

I don't know what inspired this blog post; probably a combination of things really... see I live in the South, the home of America's obesity epidemic. I never really struggled with weight growing up, the only time I could really be called a little chubby was in eighth grade, right after my parents divorced, with I gained 14 lbs and hit 135 up from my normal 121 lbs.

The past year has been really rough on me. If you read my other post you know that I have been trying to conceive for two years now. I'm an emotional eater and now my "menses" is a really negative time for me because A. it's painful as heck and gross and B. it means once again I have failed to get pregnant and I'm no closer to my dream of becoming a mother. I think many of us struggle with emotional eating!

I write a little bit about being healthy, its something I strive for and my blog is simply sharing my thoughts and experiences with you. In a child development course I took I learned that eating habits are ingrained in children from a young age, so what we feed our children really makes so much of an impact on to their health in later life (not that you are destined to be a bad eater because you were fed unhealthy but statistically you are more likely to be), eating habits are hard to change, which is why so many people who lose weight on a diet gain it back, because they can't stick to a healthy change in diet!

So now lets get to the point.
Here is an image of obesity rates across america:


Here is the 10 best and worst states to eat locally sourced food from
Best
1. Vermont
2. Maine
3. New Hampshire
4. Oregon
5. Hawaii
6. Rhode Island
7. North Dakota
8. Wisconsin
9. Montana
10. Iowa
Worst
1. Texas
2. Nevada
3. Arizona
4. Louisiana
5. Arkansas
6. Oklahoma
7. Mississippi
8. Illinois
9. Utah
10. Alabama

I don't think the study done is 100% after all I would expect California to make the top list as well as New York. As an "Arky" or whatever you want to call us I can agree with us ranking as one of the worst places to eat local grown/sourced foods!

Look at the list and look at the obesity rates. In Arkansas the obesity rate is right around 35%. In fact almost all the states on the list of worst places to eat locally are southern states with high obesity rates! 

I live about 30 minutes from our state capital of Little Rock and let me tell you the choices of grocery stores in my city: Walmart, Walmart Super Center, and if we are being generous include a meat market, Walgreens, Dollar General, and a health store (none of which have enough groceries to do your grocery shopping at exclusively and none which sell fresh fruit and vegetables).

If you do a facebook search you will find a page dedicated to bringing Trader Joe's to our area with over 1,000 likes! I personally emailed them to suggest they come here! 

I write a blog, but I also love reading others. Since I'm a jew and a bit of a finance girl I read about grocery hauls and how others save money while shopping healthy... there is a bit of a theme in all of these blogs of vlogs: stores we don't have in Arkansas, or in the state at all!
We don't have
1. Trader Joe's
2. Aldi's
3. .99 store
4. Safeway
5. Costco
6. Harris Teeter
7. Hannaford
8. Albertson's
9. Food Lion
10. Publix
11. Pathmark

I can't say the prices at all of these establishments because some I have never seen (even though I moved around growing up). I can say the first 5 on the list and Publix are often the stores discount diva's shop at for their grocery haul vlogs/blogs. 

I don't have the option of organic versus non organic on many fruits and vegetables! I have called several meat shops and I don't have the option of grassfed, locally, humanely raised meat. We don't have a local coop anymore, it is still listed online but they don't know when they will resume it... and pickup is 30 minutes away even when they do! I don't even have an option on my chickens feed other than Purina or Dumor unless I buy online and the best feeds I have read about aren't sold online!

I'm not saying that we aren't responsible for ourselves and our choices, I'm just saying it isn't as easy or cheap to be healthy in some states where your choices are limited both by selection and the price of the healthy food that is available!

I wish our states would look out for our best interests and begin really investing in itself and us by increasing local produce!
The picture above isn't mine. It was made as a call to action by a city I believe. Eating food grown locally impacts not only you and your health but your community. Your money is staying local and supporting your farmers who in exchange are giving you healthy food (hopefully organic so they aren't spraying toxins in your community and on your food).

We NEED healthy choices to be healthy, and we need them to fit in our budget.

I'm not so naive as to believe that Trader Joe's coming to town would cause obesity to decrease overnight, but I absolutely believe that our lack of access to healthy affordable and locally grown produce is a major factor in our obesity epidemic!

Tuesday, January 6, 2015

My TTC story

01/06/2014

A test like this is what anyone who is TTC wants to see. I had one once, but the pregnancy didn't take. I miscarried the night of my wedding so everytime I celebrate my wedding anniversary I also mourn the loss of our baby.

I have been TTC for two years now, since the miscarriage (and that was a planned pregnancy that we tried for).

This is a very personal subject and I really never thought about sharing it on here until today.



Today is another hard day! I was really hoping that I was pregnant because my "menses" was late. Today marked three days late. I was getting my hopes up for sure, until I saw a little red on the tp. My husband kept trying to warn me that I was getting "baby crazy" and that it was probably just a late period, but I was so hopeful.

After two years I'm kind of numb to the pain and the disappointment. I don't cry anymore, and each month that goes by I lose more and more hope that I could ever have a baby naturally. I've always wanted to adopt, but the plan was always to have my own first.

I have always had a strong maternal instinct. Being a mom has always been my dream, which makes this especially tough.

I want to say that adoption should never be thought of as a second rate option. I have heard stories about children who were adopted by couples who felt like they could never have children, had one, and then the adopted children were kind of shoved to the side. Adoption isn't for everyone, but its something I have always wanted to do.

To me having a biological child first just makes sense most and fits into that perfect "plan". From an emotional stand point, I just know adoption can take YEARS and I don't know that I could try for years to adopt a child... I don't know how I would handle that.

I just wanted to share because I know I'm not alone going through this and I want anyone else who is trying to know they aren't either. I've miscarried, I've cried, I've been to fertility specialists, my husband has had a semen analysis, the problems found our doctor says shouldn't be problematic. I've heard the "everything happens for a reason" speech, the stories people share of people they know that tried for years and then got pregnant, the "everything in gods time" speech. I have baby things from the time I was pregnant before I miscarried, I have baby clothes I found on clearance and picked up a year ago thinking that I would just donate the gender we didn't end up with because I should get pregnant anyday now right?


This isn't a pity party, although I'm sure I'll partake in one once aunt flow completely makes her appearance. I know I'm not alone in this struggle... I'm not the only one who can't attend baby showers, who has a hard time feeling happy for SOME people when they find out they are pregnant, who gets upset when people who aren't ready for or trying for a baby wind up pregnant, teen pregnancies, druggie moms, bad moms, mothers who are trying to conceive again and think they know how we feel "your a mother, its NOT the same thing! You are SO lucky"!
I'm sure I'm coming off looking super judgey... and that isn't my goal, it isn't how I want to come off, but I'm being real.

For all of you who are in the same boat I just want to say I'm sorry and I hope you get a postive bfp soon or adopt, however you want to start your family!

Monday, January 5, 2015

Kroger Steal: SO Chocolate Mint Coconut Milk (with review)

01/05/14

I have to admit, I agonized over the title for this post; should I brag about the price I nabbed this drink at or just do a "review" and mention the deal? I decided to include both in my title!

I don't generally like coconut milk to be honest. I had a problem with dairy for a while and I went with a vanilla flavored soy milk instead of this or almond (gag me).

This beverage is AWESOME. The taste is only the tip of the iceberg with this drink! This product is Non-Gmo, Gluten Free, Dairy Free, Vegan, and Kosher! 
AND
Check out the Nutrition Label:
Serving Size1/2 cup (120 mL)
Amount Per Serving
Calories50
Calories from Fat20

Total Fat2.5g4%
Saturated Fat2g10%
Trans Fat0g
Cholesterol0mg0%
Sodium80mg3%
Total Carbohydrate7g2%
Dietary Fiber1g4%
Sugar6g
Protein0g
• Vitamin A
0%
• Vitamin C
0%
• Calcium
0%
• Iron
0%
Ingredients: INGREDIENTS: ORGANIC COCONUT MILK (WATER, ORGANIC COCONUT CREAM), DRIED CANE SYRUP, COCOA (PROCESSED WITH ALKALI), NATURAL FLAVORS, SEA SALT, GUAR GUM, XANTHAN GUM, REB A (STEVIA EXTRACT), MONK FRUIT EXTRACT

The best part of this drink for me was the price; If you have been reading my posts than you know by now that I'm a Jew! This drink costs $3.99 originally. I paid just .99 the first time I picked this up a few days ago. I bought 3 because I figured if I didn't like them I would rather have wasted the extra $2 than have loved them and only bought one! Turns out both my husband and I DO love them. Today I went back to see if they had any left and was happy to see that they still had some and they had marked them down FURTHER. I picked up 6 today at just .49 each!

These are seasonal so you can't get this flavor year round. If you see it in store trust me and buy it. If you are like me and don't pay retail than if you see it in store and it still has a "holiday" label on it than wait til after the holiday than scoop then up like me!

Christmas Gift Flips!

01/05/2014
















I know many people might find the subject of "flipping" gifts taboo or tacky even. I think we all get swept up in the consumerism of Christmas. I LOVE shopping for others and get super anxious to see them all open their gifts to see if what I chose for them is something they are going to be excited about and love or if it's a dud!

I have a confession to make before we move on. I am a jew, Let me explain, I don't use this word to refer to an ethnicity, or a religion. Me admitting I'm a jew simply refers to my cheap nature! I will spend much more on things for other people than I would ever imagine spending on things for myself!

I learned my frugality from my mother. My mom isn't an extreme couponer or anything crazy, but we shopped sales and clearance growing up and I still do! I hate paying full price, so I might want something but I'll wait for it to go on sale or clearance!

Growing up with my Mom the golden rule of Christmas gifts was always be polite and thankful but if you don't like a gift than return it for something you do want!
                                                       makes sense right?


So here are my flips!

                                  
T-Fal Set: $130
MR. Coffee: $20
Makeup: $30
Clothes: $18






Overall I had about $200 worth of things that I got that I decided to trade in.

I feel the need to share that it was 100% MY fault about the first 2 on the list. I asked for a set when I really only needed skillets. I had received a set not long ago and really just use skillets regularly and wanted to replace one that sticks! I also asked for the Mr. Coffee only to have my husband tell me when I received it that he had the EXACT one and it was in our cupboard! I thought he had an old one, not one that you could set to make coffee for you in the morning!

I LOVE amazon! Let me preface with that since everything I exchanged these for so far has come from there! I ordered:
1. Shower Curtain (hopefully you will see this in my bathroom remodel reveal post)
2. Food Chopper (I got a small one, hoping I don't regret that call!)
3. Nesco Dehydrator Trays ( LOVE my dehydrator so I NEEDED extras)
4. Oven thermometer (not super exciting)
5. SCOOBY DOO where are you! Season 3!
6. T-Fal skillet set
7. Cake pan with lid
8. Scooby doo and dynomutt
9. Smashbox Mascara
10. Not your mothers dry shampoo
11. Charcoal Face Mask

I still have money left over to get more things too! I know most people wouldn't be so excited over a kids show but what can I say, it was my childhood favorite! Most of my buys were all about the kitchen, I was inspired by the ladies that are now my in laws! For holidays no one ever expects nor asks me to bring anything and I'd like to become a better chef, part of that is having the right tools to make interesting, healthy, and tasty dishes!



We are taught from childhood that "honesty is the best policy", why does this motto change when it involves gifts? There is a difference in being intentionally cruel or being rude and in being honest. It SHOULD be okay to be honest about whether you like your gift or not, regardless you ABSOLUTELY should be thankful and polite about it!

What do you say we make this a thing?
Tell each other if the gift isn't your style or just isn't something that you need.

HOW IT WORKED OUT FOR ME: My mother in law is really thoughtful in that she keeps receipts for everyone because she wants you to like your gifts and if not get something you do like!

For me after I exchanged my gifts and the ones I wanted I took pictures of those and sent to her and thanked her! We were both happy, I know the gifts are from her and they are things that work for me (and their son LOL).


Have you exchanged gifts? Is it in secret or can you be honest with them about it?
OR
Are you one of those people who hide gifts til the giver is on the way over, than you pull them out of that closet or attic to display proudly LOL!